The mother of the two young girls at the center of the viral women’s restroom confrontation said she is heartbroken that her daughters have become internet fodder — and while she believes their father “handled the situation well,” she accused him of using the moment for attention.
Zoe Lavely, the mother of the girls featured in Tyler Brodsky’s widely shared TikTok video, broke her silence in a lengthy Facebook post this week, saying she was devastated to see her children’s faces spread across social media and news outlets around the world.
“I actually don’t love this outcome; as the mother of those two girls,” Lavely wrote.
“Even though their dad handled the situation well, what everyone doesn’t see is the fear a mother has seeing their kids exposed all over the media.”
The controversy began after Brodsky shared footage of a confrontation inside a women’s restroom during a road trip stop at an Alabama QuikTrip.
The video showed Brodsky helping his daughters wash their hands inside the restroom when another man confronted him and called police.
One of the girls appeared visibly upset and cried as the argument unfolded.
The clip quickly went viral, sparking a heated debate over where fathers should take young daughters when family restrooms are unavailable.
Millions of people sided with Brodsky.
Mothers flooded social media with messages praising him for looking after his daughters and staying calm throughout the confrontation.
The incident drew national attention, and the man who called police was eventually dropped by a Mississippi real estate company, which said his actions did not reflect its values.
However, Lavely said the viral backlash came at a steep personal cost for the children involved.
“Over 20 million people have seen my girls,” she wrote.
“Not just being kids exposed all over. I see their dad approaching the man that scared my girls just for the video.”
Lavely also alleged that Brodsky had benefited financially from the attention while failing to provide financial support for the children.
“I see my girls being capitalized for money,” she wrote. “I see people offering money to a man that hasn’t paid 1 penny to those girls just this year.”
The Post could not independently verify those claims. Lavely was not immediately available for comment.
“I’m not going to get into a public back-and-forth with the mother of my children,” Brodsky told The Post in an email late Friday.
“My focus has always been, and will continue to be, our daughters. As for the financial accusations, those are simply not accurate. I’m not going to discuss private family matters publicly because my daughters deserve better than that.”
Lavely stressed that she does not object to fathers taking daughters into women’s restrooms when circumstances warrant it and said the controversy highlights the need for more family-friendly facilities.
“This is a need to be talked about situation,” she wrote.
“Every girl dad should feel welcome to take their daughter(s) in a safe, clean, private bathroom.”
“Family shared bathrooms need to be more accessible for these reasons.”
Lavely said she was raised by a single father and understands the challenges dads can face in those situations.
“I’ll never take away from that,” she wrote.
“My dad was a single father to me and faced the same battles.”
Her criticism instead focused on the decision to post footage showing the girls’ faces and emotions.
“I’d never blast my children on social media,” she wrote.
“This NEEDS to be a talked about situation. But it could have been a simple video explaining the situation without my kids faces all over the place.”
She suggested that the same message could have been shared through an audio recording instead of a video showing the children.
Lavely said seeing the clip repeatedly replayed online has been emotionally draining.
“So many people have used this video,” she wrote.
“Everytime I open my phone I see my 3 year old daughter in tears. It destroys me every single time.”
The original incident happened during a drive from Florida to Oklahoma, according to Brodsky, who said he took his daughters into an empty women’s restroom rather than bring them into a men’s restroom occupied by adult men.
In a follow-up video, Brodsky said officers arrived quickly and determined that he had done nothing wrong. He said police helped de-escalate the situation and comforted his daughters after the confrontation.
The incident sparked a wider conversation about parenting, public restrooms, and privacy — a debate that Lavely said is worth having.
However, as the controversy continues spreading online, she said her main focus remains on the two young girls at the center of it.
“I don’t deserve any money and nor do I want any clout,” Lavely wrote.
“I just simply fear for the safety of my girls.”
Her post ended with a plea for empathy and privacy.
“I wish this was just something that would blow over,” she wrote. “This has been so overwhelming and so heartbreaking.”
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